Where to Begin

Next Steps After the Conversation

After the conversation is over, you might feel relieved. Now that you've made some goals for your senior living journey, you can start making practical steps towards those goals. From touring to packing your belongings, these tasks help you build the life that is right for you.

What Happens Next?

You did your homework and had the conversation—what next? Everyone’s situation is unique, and this list offers guidance to help you move forward, wherever you are in the process.

Keep talking

Big decisions require constant communication and senior living is the same. Once you’ve broached the topic, it’s important to keep the dialogue going.

Often it takes multiple conversations—with friends, family and trusted advisors—for everyone to arrive on the same page. The key is to keep talking about it. That way your loved one can feel like their thoughts and feelings are heard and valued.

Keep talking

Big decisions require constant communication and senior living is the same. Once you’ve broached the topic, it’s important to keep the dialogue going.

Woman finding a Brookdale community for her mom

Choose a key decision maker

If you are one of many siblings, it can be helpful to determine who is going to be the key decision maker when it comes to your parent and senior living. This streamlines the moving process and keeps decision making simple.

Choose a key decision maker

Focus on the benefits of moving

There’s something to be said about the power of positivity. If you’re talking to your parents about transitioning to a community or to your children about making the move yourself, be mindful of the language you use.

Try to highlight the benefits that come with being part of a senior living community: fewer chores, less cooking, tons of social connections and a wide variety of fun-filled activities, events and excursions.

Focus on the benefits of moving

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Visit a few communities

Whether you or a loved one starts the conversation about senior living, visiting local communities is an important next step. Touring gives you a chance to meet the people who make each place special and helps you get a true feel for daily life. Visit more than one community to find the right fit for you.

Visit a few communities

Put a plan in place

Break your long to-do list into several bite-sized actionable steps. Once you know that senior living is right for you and your family, make sure you keep the momentum going. That means making decisions about when to move, what to pack and which community is right for you.

Stay open to the journey and give yourself room to explore what feels right. Things tend to go more smoothly if everyone involved is informed and included: try sharing your list and timeline with your family to help keep things on track.

Put a plan in place

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What If I Still Feel Guilty?

Friends, family and caregiver networks can offer you encouragement and support during this new chapter of life. Brookdale communities also provide opportunities for families to connect so you can talk with others who understand what you’re experiencing.

When you choose a Brookdale community you’re choosing more than a place to live—you’re choosing a partnership for someone you love.

What If I Still Feel Guilty?

When you choose a Brookdale community you’re choosing more than a place to live—you’re choosing a partnership for someone you love.

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