- Home
- Brookdale Life
- Brookdale Blogs
- Allure Takes a Stand Against Ageism But We Still Have Far to Go
August 18, 2017
I say this as much for myself as anyone because after all, I am a woman. I admit that sometimes I struggle with the changes that happen as I age. The gray hairs and laugh lines are a stark contrast to the message I receive in glossy magazines and filtered Instagram posts – that my value is directly proportionate to my youth. Second only to youth, is the appearance of youth.
As the Allure team points out, “When talking about a woman over, say, 40, people tend to add qualifiers: ‘She looks great...for her age’ or ‘She’s beautiful...for an older woman.’” Why do we feel the need to validate the beauty we see in older people? I challenge you to catch yourself the next time you want to add a qualifier and consider what would happen if you just said, “She looks great.” Beyond that, how wonderful would it be if we did not place a focus on looks at all?
While Allure is taking a major stab at ageism in the beauty industry, we still have a long way to go in terms of fighting stigma. Every day, older adults are marginalized because of the false belief that they are less competent and less valuable to society. The Frameworks Institute recently partnered with a multitude of aging organizations including AARP, to publish a report on reframing the aging paradigm. The report lists actionable things we can do to refocus the aging conversation.
Whether or not we have an older person in our lives, we all have skin in this game because the lucky among us will one day be an older adult. Changing the perception of aging starts within ourselves and research shows that those who have a more positive perception of aging enjoy better health in their older years.
Cheers to Allure magazine for taking a stand against ageism – and cheers to those who are in this with us.